I always get this question whenever I go to a friend's wedding - "When's yours?" and sometimes I get so irritated hearing that. I don't know. Is it wrong if I choose to not get married in 5 years? Everyone seems in a hurry to find their soulmate. What's with the hurry?
Anyway, somehow I've changed the values I want to see in my future husband.
- He doesn't have to be so freaking good looking but enough to be the candy of my eyes, everyday.
- He doesn't have to be so cheesy every second. I can puke easily to cheesy words nowadays seriously.
- He should not spoil me.
- He must be a bit mean, but not selfish. I love little arguments, but not big fights.
- And the most important is that he must be someone who I can look up to, and who I can follow. Like, his knowledge about Islam should be more than mine. I want him to tell me if I'm wrong. People, when you sin and your husband say nothing, he'll be dragged to be a sinner too.
- Wait, he should understand my fangirl job. Like, he should not badmouth Arashi or criticize my passion towards Japan. This should go on top, I guess. ;)
I want to experience new kind of love. But certainly not now. My mind's too occupied with things and paving my future and financial atm. So yeah. You can talk to me about wedding but certainly do NOT ask me to find a boyfriend or I'll get seriously annoyed with you. You don't like people putting pressure on you, do you?
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