Tuesday, November 2, 2010

Unmei

Are you tired of being told "You've changed" or you heard someone says "They've changed"? I do. I really do. Don't go around innocently telling people that they've changed. Because that's bound to happen. Can one stay the same forever? I think it's impossible.

Something's been bothering me. They said my friends have changed. Is that a bad thing? I know they used to do tonnes of crazy shits before and now they're different from who they were 5 years ago. What? Do you expect people to act so childishly after 5 years still? Nonsense. Even if they've changed, they're still them. It's their values that they offer that make them them. I know I'm in no place to say things to make people believe but I'm not gonna cling to the past and dwell over stupid things like changes. Because it's bound to happen, it's natural.

And I do have my own reasons for loving my friends the way they were, the way they are, or even the way they will be, particularly. And maybe it's my love for them that keeps me blind from seeing all the changes they've been through. It's also maybe because what they've done for me during my ups and downs time. You can't blame changes that happened on people you love to justify your thoughts. It's unfair. You did that just because you want to please yourself. Dragging people into this doesn't make you a lot better. It'll make you look stupid.

Seasons change, and so do people. So please move on, because that's what I call LIFE.

2 comments:

DandelinoiD said...

salute!

people changes. inspired sungguh entry ni~

jie mashi said...

well said.. agree..